Immoral angel...

The inspiration for this post came from one of my best friends who drew a tatoo on my back.This tatoo,shows two wings of an angel.So I decided to write about those angels who live among us and even though we sometimes don't notice it,they help us...

There are not a lot of these people...especially if you take into consideration the great number of people who are part of this world.They walk among us...And their "job" is to offer us support,protection,advice...Of course they don't have the power of changing our future,that's something that only we can do...

But if you think about it...we all need someone,especially when something terrible happens.That person,the first person to whom you call when you have a problrm,the person who can stay awake talking to you all night,the person who could walk for miles and miles just to check if you're ok...That person is your angel...

And i'm not talking about guardian angels...I don't believe in them...Because no one is able to "Guard" yourself better than you...I don't believe that those peple exist...I think that we are our own guardian angels...We are responsible for ourselves..we know when we risk something and we are the only people who can prevent some things from happening...

I prefer to call those people "Immoral angels"....I don't know the actual reason..But I believe that the people you depend on emotionally through your teenage years are your friends(and your parents of course but it's easier to open up to friend of yours)...So your friends during their teenage years aren't the people that go with the croud.What I want to say is that when someone is a teenager,he/she wants to shout,to express his/her feelings,to show his/her strength,to reach the limits,to make his/her revolution and to gain real knowledge by his/her experiences....

So I was thinking,since I am a teenager and most of my friends are,too.Then there must be a word that can define who we really are...A word different from all the others who are choosed to describe the teenage years...and I think I actually found it..."Immoral"...Although i'd like to define the meaning of this word...because it has a different meaning to me...Generally we use it for someone who doesn't have morals and doesn't respect...I use it with a different meaning...I use it to descibe a generation that wants to be heard,that doesn't take anything for granted and that wants to change the world...

Well,I believe that we're all immoral angels...and I also believe that there is this one(or maybe more) person(people),who is our own immoral angel....So this is to everyone who chooses to be different..this is for everyone who chooses to be immoral because he/she likes to change....

People change...

Someone once said that just like seasons,people change...I heard this quote recently and I started thinking,do we actually change?and why do we take that decision of changing??

Well,I believe that each one of us has to change him/her self at least once during his/her life.But by changing we mean a lot of things like changing our mind about something,making importamt decisions that we want to follow,mayby even changing our appearance or our character.

First of all,we all have our own ideas and our beliefs.But sometimes we decide to change everything that we believe in because one person told us to or because we feel that those things we used to believe in don't represent us anymore.Maybe it's because we're getting older or more mature.That's a great thing...I mean I agree that at some point we might need to change our ideas in order to fit with something new that we've created but i think that it's wrong to change everything because of one person.Even if you think that he/she is the most important person for you in the whole world...

In our lives there always comes a time when we have to make important decisions.These may include our present or our future.Usually that kind of decisions is hard to be taken but we have to choose.There are a lot of people(and I know that because I've actually met some of them) who have fully organised their lives.They already know what they are going to do in ten years,their job,the person with who they are going to get married(because they are dating right now),the number of kids they want to have and other similar stuff.I think it's good to organise your life but I find it also tiring.If you have already decided about your life then it's going to be boring.Anyway,at some point we have to change the plans that we've made for our lives and make new ones.

Something that a lot of young people do is changing their appearance.Especially the teenagers,who believe that everything is wrong with them.I've been through that.I once thought that I was fat and even though everyone was telling me that I was normal(and i was),I didn't believe them.I did anything in order to loose weight because I thought that everything would be much different if i did something like that.So I reached a point when I didn't eat almost anything and I felt weaker and weaker every day.Then I realised that if i continued doing that I would end up in a hospital.So I made the decision of trying to gain some weight and get back to normal.I'm glad I made that decision and I'm glad that everyone supported me in that.So...whatever some people say,don't you ever change!!!You are beautiful just the way you are!!!

I think that the worst change someone can do is changing his/her character.I mean come on,each one of us has a specific character which has both positive and negative points,but there are some people who believe that they need to change everything about themselves.I really don't understand that.Nobody likes someone who has "a new me" style.There is no "new me" as there is no "old me".We are all the same and no one can make us change our personalities.And for those who decide themselves that they don't like who they are,then they can't appreciate themselves.Even if they manage to change,they'll propably and up alone...

Decisions should be made cause changes always happen.But we should be the ones who make those decisions...remember that no one knows us better than we know ourself .If we decide to chang ourselves then it'sok as long as there's no one else who made us believe that we want a change and as long as it isn't a dramatic change.

Imperfection is beautiful....

We all have our own ideas about beauty....Each one of us finds attractive different people.And that's the nature of the human.Imagine what it would be like if we all liked one certain type of people...The whole world would be a mess...

Anyway,we have to accept that everyone has his/her imperfections.No one is and no one will ever be perfect.Actually,there is no way to define what is perfect.For some,it may be having blue eyes,or being tall.For some others it may be having long hair or being thin.But let's accept it,it's not possibe to look exactly how we want.

I mean,who wouldn't like having beautiful big eyes,being tall,having an amazing body that even athlet's would be jealous of??We all dream about ourself.We sometimes even wish of having something that someone else has.But is this good for us??

I believe that it doesn't actually help us.Ok,sometimes it might be good to admire one person for his/her looks but not try to follow him/her.If we do that,then we don't have self esteem and most off all we aren't going to be happy because we'll feel trapped into someone else.Walk out the streets and you'll see a lot of girls who are extremely thin.Why are they doing that?Because they want to look like someone else.Because they believe that they will be prettier.But prettier doesn't equal with skinnier.

Remember that  you know yourself better.And that there is no beauty without a peculiarity.So just stay focused to the positive aspects of yourself.Even some things that you may think that are negative,it depends on the aspect you see them....:)

Dreams...nightmares...and fears

"Dreams are the touchstones of our characters"-Henry David Thoreau

Have you ever wandered why do we dream??Or what is dreaming??

First of all,a dream can include images,thoughts and emotions that we have during our sleep.There is no actual purpose which can explain why we dream.Some people believe that dreaming isn't essential and doesn't have a particular purpose.On the other hand there are others who believe that dreaming is important fot our mental,emotional and physical well-being.

There are some dream theories who support that during our sllep,our desires,thoughts and motivations are revialed through our dreams.It is also believed that we reveal our true personality during our sleep and any kinds of secrets or guilt can take part in our dreams.In that case the dream is called nightmare.

But why are we actually afraid of nightmares??I believe that it's because we are afraid of something and that can actually affect our sleep.So nightmares are the fears and the problems we can't face.It's not because we are weak to face them.It's because we think that they are too big for us and that nomatter what we'll do,it still won't be enough.We give them dimensions that don't respond to the reality.

We are afraid of something that we don't know.We are afraid of it and in our mind we make it look bigger than it actually is.But when we get close to it,when we can almost touch it,then we can see its true dimensions.But now,nomatter what that fear is,you know what to expect.You've seen it,you've dealed with it.It might hurt you,but you hurt it as well...

So,dreams are dreams.They can't hurt us.Neither our fears can.But it is better for someone to deal with his/her fears.It is hard,but I think that the result is worth the whole fight...And of course through this process,you will understand yourself better and you'll feel free...

Closer to the edge....

There are a lot of moments in our lives that we think we've reached the end of the line...we feel that if we try harder things won't get any better and so sometimes,some of us believe that it is better to give up...




Is it???Or it's just an excuse to make ourselves feel better???What do we earn from giving up??NOTHING!!It's only a way to pretend that everything is ok when it isn't...So is it actually worth it??Propably not...




Even though there are sometimes when we think we get closer to the edge,everything

turns out to be different that we expected...There are some people and some things that help us keep our head high and prevent us from falling...There are so many moments that you could share with someone,anyone...and he/she could show you a lot of support when you need it...especially when you feel that a moment lasts forever when it's actually only a night,only a moment...But despite of it's small duration we believe that it will always follow us...and that there is nothing we can do to prevent it...

Fate sometimes has it's weird ways of doing something in front of your eyes...something you never expected but still it happens...and at that moment when you start to realize that it's actually happening you don't have the strength to deal with it...you sometimes have to struggle hard to understand some things and to get back where you used to be....

I think that we shouldn't regret anything...because at that time it was exactly what we wanted...and in the end it makes us who we really are...it shows our true self...And sometimes we make promises to ourselves...promises that might not seem important to other people....we must keep those promises no matter what...because they are a part of us and they complete us....they are decisions we've taken for ourselves and we have to  show that we're old and mature enough in order to protect us...

So,try to do the best you think for yourselves,never give up,and try to find the power from inside you that can complete you and teach you who you are...

Life is a party....

If life is a party,can you always choose the people who are going to come or do you just have to greet everyone that comes???

In our life we meet a lot of people...some of them become our friends because we've chosen them to be...some others belong to our family and we have to accept them...

I believe that friends are like stars,you don't always see them but you know that they are there for you...But today there are a few people that can talk about true friendship.We live in a century where important things lika love,family and friendship are not taken as seriously as they should.Most people care only about themselves and decide to accept someone in their life only if they gain something from him/her.If we all know how important friendship is to us then why do we keep forgetting about it???

Anyway,sometimes,people enter our lifes without our acceptance...I remember two years ago when my best friend brought to school another friend of hers.In the begining I said ok I'm going to hang out with her and everything will be alright.But after a few months things started to get "dark".Me and my best friend started fighting because of the other girl and eventually we also fought with her...After a long time we decided that we could hang out all together but not as best friends...I haven't seen that girl recently but even if I do we just say hi and nothing more...

I believe that this is the nature of the human...It's difficult to accept someone in your life so it's even harder if you don't like him/her...So in order to be happy,make sure that you and only you decide who is going to enter your life and who is going to be part of it...:)

Love is a weird thing...

Who can define love???
I'm sure I can't....actually I don't believe that anyone can say something that would clearly give the definition of love...And that propably happens because we know how it is to feel the love around you but words can't actually explain the way you feel...

Can we share love???
And by sharing it I mean "cutting" it into pieces in order to place it in small boxes that contain "friendship","marriage" and "family".Can this happen???we all know that people that we love are everywhere around us in order to support us during hard times of our lifes but sometimes it is difficult to "put" a person in a small box because for example you might be friends with someone and as it'll turn out you might even get married or something like that...